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Find a Host Family as an Au Pair

Find host families in Germany and across Europe that match your experience, your language skills, your start date, and your expectations of family life.

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Start: March 2027 Β· German A2 Β· Experience with children 3–8 yrs

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Matching based on start date, language, childcare experience, interests, and expectations.

Find a Host Family That Truly Fits You

Finding a host family means more than just picking a country and a start date. On Auost, you can compare key criteria before you make contact.

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Start Date & Duration

Find families whose schedule and timeline align with your planned au pair stay.

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Children & Experience

Compare the ages of the children and care expectations with your childcare background.

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Language & Daily Life

See which languages are spoken at home and what everyday family routines look like.

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Destination Country

Discover host families in your preferred country or target European region.

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Interests & Lifestyle

Shared interests and lifestyle hobbies help make living together natural and enjoyable.

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Mutual Expectations

Clarify responsibilities, schedules, free time, and expectations as early as possible.

5 Steps to Finding Your Host Family

A clear step-by-step process helps you compare families faster and feel confident every step of the way.

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Create Your Au Pair Profile

Showcase your childcare experience, language skills, hobbies, availability, and expectations.

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Discover Host Families

Filter by destination country, start date, children, and key matching preferences.

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Compare Family Profiles

Take a closer look at daily routines, location, accommodation, children, and house guidelines.

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Get in Touch

Chat directly and hold video calls to get to know each other personally before deciding.

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Finalize Your Match

Clarify the au pair contract, tasks, hours, insurance, visa paperwork, and travel arrangements.

Before You Accept a Host Family Offer

A great match is built on mutual sympathy and crystal-clear terms. Clarify these essential points before making your final decision.

βœ“ What specific duties and tasks will I take on?
βœ“ How many hours of help are expected per week?
βœ“ Do I have my own private, furnished room?
βœ“ Which days and evenings off will I receive?
βœ“ What does a typical daily and weekly schedule look like?
βœ“ How are pocket money, health insurance & courses arranged?
βœ“ Do I require an au pair visa and official documents?
βœ“ What house guidelines and rules exist in the household?

Plan Your Au Pair Year

Interactive tools and practical guide pages for a thoroughly prepared au pair stay.

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Au Pair Visa Check

Check whether you may require a visa for your desired destination country.

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Requirements Check

Find out what basic age and legal requirements apply to your destination country.

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Au Pair Costs & Pocket Money

See standard pocket money, health insurance, and other key financial rules by country.

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Compare Countries

Compare conditions and regulations across several au pair destination countries.

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Meet Host Families Safely & Confidently

Conduct in-depth video calls and clarify all essential terms before confirming a match or booking your travel.

  • Profiles with relevant verification indicators
  • Transparent matching criteria tailored to you
  • Recommended video calls prior to matching
  • Guides on visas, insurance, and arrival preparation
  • Help and support throughout your stay

Frequently Asked Questions About Finding a Host Family

Clear and concise answers to help you navigate the au pair matching process.

How do I find a host family as an au pair? +

Create a complete profile showcasing your childcare experience, language skills, and availability. Filter host families by destination country and start date, send messages, and get to know matching families thoroughly through video calls before making a decision.

How long does it take to find a host family? +

This depends on your destination country, planned start date, language proficiency, childcare experience, and profile completeness. Many au pairs match within a few weeks. If an au pair visa is required, plan 2 to 4 months in advance.

Should I have video calls with my host family before matching? +

Yes, absolutely. Ideally, hold multiple video calls with both parents and meet the children. Discuss daily routines, duties, working hours, free time, and mutual expectations in detail.

Do I need a visa as an au pair? +

This depends on your citizenship and destination country. EU citizens do not need a visa within the EU. Non-EU citizens typically require a dedicated au pair visa (for Germany, usually requiring proof of A1 German language skills). Use our Visa Check for detailed guidance.

How do I recognize the right host family for me? +

Look for clear duties, fair working hours, transparent communication, a private furnished room, location convenience, and above all, mutual respect and shared expectations.

Ready to Find Your Host Family?

Create your au pair profile and discover families that match your planned stay.

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